Month: October 2025

  • Renewing Your Mind — How to Mentally Prepare While You Wait

    Renewing Your Mind — How to Mentally Prepare While You Wait

    Let’s get honest. There is so much talk about “becoming a wife” or “preparing for your husband” in the Christian space, but far too little about the mental and emotional preparation needed to sustain a healthy marriage. We talk about being physically ready, spiritually mature, and financially stable. But what about your mind? What about…

  • How to Spot a Counterfeit: 7 Red Flags You Should Never Ignore in Dating

    If you haven’t read parts 1 and 2, check them out here and here! Then read on for part 3… How to Spot the Wrong Men So, how do you guard your heart against men who see you as an object? Let me give you some practical, sister-to-sister red flags…

  • You Are Not An Object To Be Used: Why Men Use You and How to Protect Your Mind and Heart

    If you haven’t read part 1, check it out here! Then read on for part 2… Why Some Men Use Women Sis, I need to say this plainly: not every man you meet is looking for love, marriage, or even friendship. Some are looking for access. Access to your time,…

  • You Don’t Have to Do Tricks to Be Loved: God’s Better Plan for Sex and Love

    You Don’t Have to Do Tricks to Be Loved: God’s Better Plan for Sex and Love

    I was recently scrolling the internet when I came across an article with this headline: “The ‘Marry Me’ Sex Move That’ll Make Even the Most Commitment-Phobic of Men Beg to See You Again (and it worked for three of my friends).” And honestly? I read it. Not because I believe it’s…