Author: For Single Women Only

  • “Don’t Come In!”: How to Set Physical Boundaries With ZERO Guilt

    “Don’t Come In!”: How to Set Physical Boundaries With ZERO Guilt

    Let’s talk about space. Not just your “I need a break” kind of space, but your actual physical space — your body, your bedroom, your car, your couch, your bathroom drawer, your cubicle, your purse. That space is yours. And no matter how loving, friendly, or well-meaning someone is, they are not entitled to…

  • “STOP Manipulating Me!” — How to Set Emotional Boundaries

    “STOP Manipulating Me!” — How to Set Emotional Boundaries

    Hey sis — has anyone ever made you feel like your emotions were a problem… just because they weren’t convenient?Maybe you’ve been guilt-tripped for not being available. Manipulated into saying “yes” when everything in you was screaming “no.” Or maybe you’ve walked away from a conversation wondering, “Did I overreact?” when deep…

  • Unhappily Single but Dreaming of Travel? 10 Powerful Ways to Break Free From the Funk and See the World Anyway

    Unhappily Single but Dreaming of Travel? 10 Powerful Ways to Break Free From the Funk and See the World Anyway

    Let’s just say the quiet part out loud: it’s hard to see other people traveling with their families, posting beach selfies with their besties, or jetting off with a spouse while you’re over here just trying to figure out if it’s weird to book a hotel room for one. If…

  • Modesty Isn’t About Control: How to Break Free from the Lies You Believed About Your Body and Embrace Truth

    Modesty Isn’t About Control: How to Break Free from the Lies You Believed About Your Body and Embrace Truth

    Let’s talk about something that has confused a lot of us for years: modesty. If you grew up in a conservative Christian church, you probably had a long list of rules about what women could and couldn’t wear. For example, in my church, we were taught that women shouldn’t wear pants.…

  • Feeling Stuck in the Waiting Room of Life? Read This

    Feeling Stuck in the Waiting Room of Life? Read This

    If you haven’t already, check out part 1 here. Read on for part 2. Is this you? Are you waiting to be set free from the “prison” that is your singleness journey? Are you waiting for your name to be called, yet every other woman seems to be “assigned” to…

  • Tired of Being Single? What You Need to Remember to Get Through Your Single Season in One Piece

    Tired of Being Single? What You Need to Remember to Get Through Your Single Season in One Piece

    As my sister handed me my mail, she said, “Well, the jury duty people finally got you.” I couldn’t help but feel annoyed. The thought of losing a day (or more!) for jury duty just didn’t appeal to me (or my bank account!). I had plans. I had appointments. And now, the…

  • Should I Text Him For the Third Time…or Start a New Life in Another Country? Pt 3

    Should I Text Him For the Third Time…or Start a New Life in Another Country? Pt 3

    Check out part 1 and part 2 here if you haven’t already. So you’ve reviewed his words and actions and have noticed that they’re not really matching up. Then chances are, you know everything you need to know at that point (at least your head does…). He keeps promising you…

  • Travel Now, Not Later: Budget-Friendly Tips for Single Christian Women

    Travel Now, Not Later: Budget-Friendly Tips for Single Christian Women

    In the last post, I said, “Don’t wait for life to start. Live it now.” In case you’re wondering about the financial logistics, I want you to keep this in mind: You Don’t Have to Be Rich—You Just Have to Be Ready I know what you’re thinking: “But traveling’s expensive!”…

  • Should I Text Him For the Third Time…or Start a New Life in Another Country? Pt 2

    Should I Text Him For the Third Time…or Start a New Life in Another Country? Pt 2

    If you haven’t already, read part 1 here. So how can you know when a guy is genuinely interested in you and worth giving him a shot? All you have to do is look at what he DOES, not just what he says.A man who is interested in pursuing you will show…

  • Bonafide, Proven Reasons to Embrace Travel Before the Husband, Baby, & Minivan

    Bonafide, Proven Reasons to Embrace Travel Before the Husband, Baby, & Minivan

    Ever wish you had a time travel machine? I have. There are so many things I wish I could go back in time and tell my younger self so she could do things differently. That’s why I felt the need to write this post. If there’s one thing I wish…