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Socially Awkward? You Are Not a Lost Cause — How to Rise into Who God Designed You to Be
Tell me if this sounds familiar. You, Now you’re replaying that moment on a mental loop like it’s a blooper reel. I get it. I’m someone who can be awkward. I’ve stuck my foot in my mouth more times than I can count! Like the time I assumed my classmate…
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From ‘Happily Ever After’ to ‘Divorced’: You Need to Know You Didn’t Fail — You Survived
I know what it’s like when life doesn’t turn out the way you planned. Divorce isn’t just the end of a relationship. It’s the shattering of a future you prayed for, hoped for, and maybe even built your life around. Maybe you didn’t want to get divorced. Maybe you fought tooth…
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“MY Money Is Not YOUR Money” — How to Set Money Boundaries & Kick Leeches to the Curb
My phone vibrated. I clicked the side button and saw it was a text. I opened it up and was in disbelief at the contents of the text. There were no greetings. No “Hi,” “How are you,” or even a “Hope all is well.” Just a link to a fundraiser…
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When You Feel Like God Loves Every Other Woman More: The Truth That Will Set Your Heart Free
I love, love a good love story. I’m the girl who loves to ask: It can be so fun to hear people’s love stories, watch both their faces light up at the memories, and listen to their testimonies of how God provided them a spouse. But what happens when you…
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“I’m Not on Call Just Because I’m Free” How to Set Time Boundaries and Stop Being The Backup Plan
Has anyone ever made plans for you without asking you first? You’re sitting on the couch in your comfy robe, deep-conditioning your hair and watching The Chosen, and then boom, your phone vibrates: Sis, serious question: when did your free time become a community resource??? Let’s talk about time boundaries, because your time is valuable even…
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Still Struggling to Feel Beautiful? A Sister’s Honest Story You Need to Hear
I never had a boyfriend in high school…or college, for that matter. Now looking back, this was partially because I wasn’t allowed one (at least in high school), was shy and awkward, and got my heart broken one time, and basically closed up shop. I couldn’t see it back then.…
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“YOU Don’t Get to Think for ME” How to Set Mental Boundaries and Protect Your Mind
It was that time of year again: election season. Candidates were running left and right, trying to explain why people should vote for them. I always research before voting. So I was shocked when a well-meaning family member told me who I should vote for, and stated their choice was…
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“Don’t Come In!”: How to Set Physical Boundaries With ZERO Guilt
Have you ever had someone move in for a hug when you were very much not interested in hugging them? I have. And it is a very uncomfortable experience. So let’s talk about space. Not just your “I need room” kind of space, but your actual physical space: your body, your bedroom,…