Category: feeling lonely

  • The Dating Advice That Keeps Women Confused—and Why It’s Failing You

    The Dating Advice That Keeps Women Confused—and Why It’s Failing You

    Everywhere you turn, someone has an opinion about why you haven’t met “the right person” yet. One camp says, “You’re being too picky! At your age, you need to lower your standards!”  Another camp says, “Your standards are too low. You’re just settling so you can be in a relationship.”  The older…

  • Joy in the Wilderness: Finding Steadfast Hope When Life Feels Like One Long Delay

    Ever had one of those seasons where you feel like you’re on top of the world? I have. Everything is clicking, doors are opening, and my prayers are being answered left and right! But then there are those other seasons. The long, hard, stretching seasons. The ones that feel like…

  • How to Spot a Counterfeit: 7 Red Flags You Should Never Ignore in Dating

    How to Spot the Wrong Men So, how do you guard your heart against men who see you as an object? Let me give you some practical, sister-to-sister red flags to look out for based on what I’ve learned while dating various men: Here’s the truth, sis: the wrong man…

  • You Are Not An Object To Be Used: Why Men Use You and How to Protect Your Mind and Heart

    If you haven’t read part 1, check it out here! Then read on for part 2… Why Some Men Use Women Sis, I need to say this plainly: not every man you meet is looking for love or marriage (even if they say they are). I dated a guy like…

  • You Don’t Have to Do Tricks to Be Loved: God’s Better Plan for Sex and Love

    You Don’t Have to Do Tricks to Be Loved: God’s Better Plan for Sex and Love

    I was recently scrolling the internet when I came across an article with this headline: “The ‘Marry Me’ Sex Move That’ll Make Even the Most Commitment-Phobic of Men Beg to See You Again (and it worked for three of my friends).” And honestly? I read it. Not because I believe it’s…

  • When You Feel Like God Loves Every Other Woman More: The Truth That Will Set Your Heart Free

    When You Feel Like God Loves Every Other Woman More: The Truth That Will Set Your Heart Free

    I love, love a good love story. I’m the girl who loves to ask: It can be so fun to hear people’s love stories, watch both their faces light up at the memories, and listen to their testimonies of how God provided them a spouse. But what happens when you…

  • Feeling Stuck in the Waiting Room of Life? Read This

    Feeling Stuck in the Waiting Room of Life? Read This

    Is this you? Are you waiting to be set free from the “prison” that is your singleness journey? Are you waiting for your name to be called, yet every other woman seems to be “assigned” to a man except you? Keep reading… The Turn They finally called my name for…

  • Tired of Being Single? What You Need to Remember to Get Through Your Single Season in One Piece

    Tired of Being Single? What You Need to Remember to Get Through Your Single Season in One Piece

    As my sister handed me my mail, she said, “Well, the jury duty people finally got you.” I couldn’t help but feel annoyed. The thought of losing a day (or more!) for jury duty just didn’t appeal to me (or my bank account!). I had plans. I had appointments. And now, the…

  • Should I Text Him For the Third Time…or Start a New Life in Another Country? Pt 3

    Should I Text Him For the Third Time…or Start a New Life in Another Country? Pt 3

    So you’ve reviewed his words and actions and have noticed that they’re not really matching up. Then chances are, you know everything you need to know at that point (at least your head does…). He keeps promising you the world when he can’t even keep the promise he made to…

  • Should I Text Him For the Third Time…or Start a New Life in Another Country? Pt 2

    Should I Text Him For the Third Time…or Start a New Life in Another Country? Pt 2

    So how can you know when a guy is genuinely interested in you and worth giving him a shot? All you have to do is look at what he DOES, not just what he says.A man who is interested in pursuing you will show you — consistently, intentionally, and without you having to beg for…